Bail Out of These United States?

It scares me to think that my state may have to bail out other states.  THERE MUST BE SOME RULES AND REGULATIONS APPLIED TO THOSE STATES REQUESTING FEDERAL ASSISTANCE.
THESE STATES CANNOT BE PERMITTED TO CONTINUE THEIR RECKLESS SPENDING HABITS WHILE BEING FINANCED BY THE REST OF THE COUNTRY.

IT WOULD SEEM TO BE A MUCH EASIER AND LESS COSTLY SOLUTION TO LET THESE STATES FAIL AND REFORM UNDER A BALANCED BUDGET SYSTEM OF SPENDING.

My state does not furnish free or low cost college.
My state does not cause businesses to move out of the state by increasing businesses taxes.
My state does not cause individuals to move out of state to avoid higher taxes.
The trouble in my state is mainly due to lack of jobs.  Federal money is being used to retain government jobs but the private sector is still excluded from the bailouts.

SHARING THE WEALTH DOES NOT MEAN I EMPTY MY POCKETS TO THE DETRIMENT OF MY HOME STATE SO SOME FROG LOVER CAN CONTINUE BUILDING TUNNELS UNDER ROADWAYS.